Sunday, August 16, 2009

Letter to Sheila Dikshit.

Hon'ble Madam,

Being a proud citizen of India I feel it is my duty to inform respected madam that the condition of harassment of ladies in Delhi has not improved as equally as the standard of living in the city. Though we have new low-floor, air conditioned buses, metro and newly constructed flyovers somewhere we have lacked in pouring a sensibility in the mentality of people. It has remained the same. Still there is no respect for ladies traveling in buses or metro.
As Commonwealth games are approaching, lot of tourists will come to attend the tournament but I am doubtful that what image we will be left with when our respected guests will encounter those men who can not even respect ladies traveling with them?

I would like to take hon’ble madam’s attention towards a very minute but extremely sensible issue which is directly related to a woman’s honor extrinsically and dignity intrinsically. It is the design and placement of metro train’s chairs. First of all there’s nothing attached to separate one chair form the other and second the place of chairs are opposite to each other in the extreme sides. People, who stand in between the chairs, always stand in the direction towards people who are sitting. This makes very embarrassing for ladies who are sitting. Moreover some men make it more embarrassing intentionally so that the girl or lady sitting opposite to them leave the seat herself. I have seen this happening with foreigners as well which forced me to write this letter.

Because it is not just for the honor and dignity of women but also for the honor and dignity of the nation it is my humble request to please take care of such minute issues. Either there should be an additional ladies compartment on every metro train or the design of chairs should be modified. Additional ladies compartment will be helpful for ladies who are traveling without any male counterpart. Moreover I would like to add that reservation of seats in metro or buses are least helpful for ladies as it is creating more hatred and disrespect for women. As we all know that men have a biological tendency to feel superior to women, so some of them feel it is their insult to leave their seat for women. It becomes a cause of cold war in the minds of both the gender. Instead of using the word ‘reservation’ it is important to write “being a man it is your duty to respect women, children and old people” and “being Indians it is our duty to respect our guests”. This will develop a sense of responsibility.

When the issue will be sort out I’d be grateful to respected madam on the behalf of every woman who has gone through such an experience.

With Warm Regards,
Dolly Jamwal.

10 comments:

Vikas Gupta said...

Agree with you!

Did you send this letter to her or only published it here?! Was there any response or acknowledgment?You can also write in the newspapers [the Hindu Readers' Mail will definitely publish it]. You can also file an RTI on this.

IIBIR said...

yes i sent the letter to both Delhi Government and President's office. There's no response from Delhi office but it has been transferred to DTC from President's office. They have told me the concerned officer as well. But it's quite unsure that they will be able to do anything before Commonwealth games..

And I am glad for your suggestion. Will definitely work on it.

Regards.

Vikas Gupta said...

Interesting! It's mostly about Delhi Metro and the President's office sent it to DTC!

I had submitted an RTI to the DTC suggesting them to make it mandatory for the conductor to get vacated the ladies seats occupied by men! They said they forwarded it to the management!

Write in India's most intellectual [but dull boring and orthodox] newspaper - the Hindu! They will publish it [Reader's Mail on Mondays].

IIBIR said...

Great.. will congratulate you if there will be any action..
I'll definitely read your letter.

IIBIR said...

why you said "India's most intellectual [but dull boring and orthodox] newspaper"?? I like it..

Vikas Gupta said...

I like it too;It is dull and boring just the same!

These days it is very unethical: official newspaper of Sri Lanka govt. and highly pro-China.

The Outsider said...

good punch, Dolly ji..

but, its not Delhi NCR, where it happens... its the root mentality of males in south Asia.. but all fingers are not the same.. Gentleman like Vikas Gupta are here, who fought with such evils..

Shiela Dixit alone could not change the mentality of 'so-called' men!! its duty of family, academic institutions and surrounding to condition them(both male and females) as human beings..
majority of 'males' conditioned to see women as 'usable' thing only.. thatz not their fault.. that s the basic education of conditioning.. the revolution is on cards.

IIBIR said...

I am glad that the suggestion is being listened and now we have a saparate ladies coach in all metro trains..

sapiosexual ツ said...

superliked.. ur effort.. al d verry best in al ur future endevrs !

IIBIR said...

Thanks Mr. Hitesh..!!